December 2nd, 2011
06:00 AM ET

Adopted kids taken from gay father

Chandler Burr, an American father, is fighting the Colombian government for custody  his adoptive sons after authorities discovered he is gay.

Burr met the boys in 2009, and he said they know he's gay. But a Colombian judge said Burr wasn't upfront about his sexual orientation while the adoption was taking place. "Just as Burr had the right to know about the children," the judge said in a statement, "the children had the right to know who the person adopting them really is."

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  1. jusme101

    gays are messed up in the head... they don't need to pass their confusion onto their adopted children...

    December 26, 2011 at 1:48 am | Report abuse |
    • Jeff

      There are countless books and studies done on gay parenting, and it is obvious by your reply that you've not read a single one. 🙂

      December 26, 2011 at 3:59 am | Report abuse |
  2. Chuck Norris

    @AllThePeopleWhoWereTalkingAboutInter-CountryAdoptions ~ I am all for you, but come on, our economy is in a crisis as it is. I do not see it as fair that kids born in OTHER countries are adpoted, and then they come over here, and then eventurally take a job that could have gone to an AMERICAN person, BORN in AMERICA, and was not from another country. If you think about it, if we move ALL immigrants who are NOT on Vacation, and ALL the direct children, that would already improve our economy, because we would not have all these people coming here, taking a job that rally should belong to an AMERICAN, and slipping the money back to their family in zimbabwe which LOWERS our economy.
    Adopt a foreign kid by all means, but if you do, remember that every single foreign person, DOWNGRADES our economy.

    December 15, 2011 at 5:08 pm | Report abuse |
    • Gena O'Kelley

      You're an idiot.

      December 17, 2011 at 3:09 pm | Report abuse |
    • Philip Morris

      You forgot to say, Hypocritically, "God bless America"

      December 20, 2011 at 2:55 am | Report abuse |
    • Buddy

      Then peace out brother. Chuck Norris doesn't sound like a native american name...making YOU an immigrant. Need help packing?

      December 21, 2011 at 12:52 pm | Report abuse |
    • Jeff

      Money and jobs are not a finite object. People working in those positions cause more money to flow, resulting in MORE WEALTH flowing through America, not less.

      December 26, 2011 at 4:01 am | Report abuse |
    • HappyGirl1952

      I can feel your anger, I read your words and I understand what you are trying to say but you are misguided on so many levels that there isn't enough space to explain why you are wrong.

      America doesn't produce anything any more – just where do you think the jobs are going to come from? Blaming foreign illegal workers who take mostly low paying jobs that Americans don't want isn't going to fix the problem. And if you did take those jobs picking fruit and vegetables, waiting tables, cleaning toilets – the wage paid will really scare the living daylights out of you because the American boss isn't following the labour laws because they don't hire Americans. It's a dead end.

      You're blaming foreign children because you feel helpless...welcome to the club. Americans are scared – they will blame everyone and anything to try and explain why their world is in such a mess...Americans aren't the only people in the world worried about jobs, family, security etc. Take a deep breath...we are all in it together...you are not alone...wrong yes, but I understand your pain.

      December 31, 2011 at 3:40 pm | Report abuse |
  3. Danielle

    Why should it matter?

    December 15, 2011 at 2:35 pm | Report abuse |
  4. Personally

    If you take a look at the pics, the kids are already leaning away from this man. He has most likely already "attacked" them with inappropriate affection and/or touching. The pics are telling the story. The children would be better off where they are under watchful eyes, not perverted eyes.

    December 14, 2011 at 8:48 pm | Report abuse |
    • Shonda Cedeno

      Are you for real? Did you really just say that? If you look at my pictures on my facebook page there are tons of pictures of my kids moving away from me. WHY? Because I am their mother and they are at the age they do not want their parents hugging them in public. Did you really just say that? You are kidding right? Just trying to get people worked up? There is no way you really feel that way.

      December 15, 2011 at 4:21 am | Report abuse |
    • Kate From Canada

      You sound like someone who knows nothing about children, gays or adoption. Did you read a psych article on body languate and now believe you can identify a problem from this one picture? Why do you not just admit you don't like gay people, since you chose to identify this man as a pervert? Get with the program, friend, it is almost 2012 and you are stuck in the dark ages.

      December 15, 2011 at 3:32 pm | Report abuse |
    • Jennifer

      Are they or is it just the angle?

      December 17, 2011 at 8:58 am | Report abuse |
    • Jan

      You should be ashamed of yourself to think you can judge a person solely on one picture. Find GOD.

      December 20, 2011 at 10:08 pm | Report abuse |
  5. Lynda

    what's outrageous is this 'story'. Really two paragraphs and 4 sentences...Yes this IS the best CNN can do.

    December 14, 2011 at 3:51 pm | Report abuse |
  6. Jim

    Well The judge does have a point. If the guy didn't tell the kids he was gay, then the law should be enforced.

    December 13, 2011 at 5:17 am | Report abuse |
    • Jen

      Did you watch the video? He DID tell them, and the kids told the Colombian authorities that they knew and that it wasn't important.

      December 14, 2011 at 11:19 pm | Report abuse |
  7. Devin

    This is an outrage, all judges will one day be judged based on the choices they also make, an abuse of power, corruption of mind, and karma will all come into play. In the mean time, this man should look into getting an attourney. This isn't sad, it's sick and unjustified is what it is. And whoever says it's because the catholic faith is so strict, well perhaps it is, but you explain to all the poor catholic children who were molested by their preists, just how wonderful a strick religeon makes ever man of the faith good and pure...What a joke.

    December 13, 2011 at 2:37 am | Report abuse |
  8. George R Vereen

    Yes Indeed: The problem with society is that people think that they can do anything
    and nothing should be done. My comment is this. It should not be a problem with this youg man raising these children if the environment is a loving one. Also these judges think they can do what ever they want due to the power they have. Judges with a narrow mind should be taken off the bench for disrupting other people lives due to their own prejudice. No matter if you are Gay or not raising children is a major responsiable.

    December 11, 2011 at 5:17 pm | Report abuse |
  9. AmericanSam

    Incredibly sad. Love will win in the end.

    December 10, 2011 at 12:16 pm | Report abuse |
  10. k

    what a sad story, especially the quote about how "the children" have a right to know... as if it were ever about what information was disclosed to them. I'm sure if given a choice, they would have opted to stay .
    On a more positive note, I am really proud to see that every comment so far was in support of the man whose adopted children were ripped away from him.

    December 9, 2011 at 2:30 pm | Report abuse |
    • Meruh

      I'm guessing the reason is because Columbia is a predominantly Catholic country, which is pretty strict in the traditional sense. I would certainly say that these children being adopted by a man that lives a lifestyle that they have been told is a sin have the right to know what they're in for.

      That said, I think it's horrible they were taken away from a father who probably loved them, cherished them, and took care of them when no one else would. How selfish of the courts to disregard their welfare.

      December 9, 2011 at 9:53 pm | Report abuse |
  11. AJR

    Hmm.....seems like the anti gay movement is like the anti chinese movement, anti black movement...cycle keeps repeating...we never learn

    December 9, 2011 at 12:45 pm | Report abuse |
  12. KGH

    This is different country. They have the right to do whatever they want. This should not be news here. This man should be talking to Columbian journalists, get on the news in Columbia.

    It makes me sad that a great, loving person like this man prefers to adopt kids from outside the US...charity begins at home. There are so many kids who need foster homes here. Why not help them?

    December 5, 2011 at 12:37 am | Report abuse |
    • kelly

      Because there are a lot of states in this country that don't allow gays to adopt. He probably thought it was easier in another country.

      December 5, 2011 at 3:06 pm | Report abuse |
    • Ben

      How can that possibly make you sad? Yes, there are American children who needs to be adopted, but it isn't a bad thing if you adopt a kid from another country. A good deed is a good deed.

      December 8, 2011 at 9:06 am | Report abuse |
    • Geoff Trowbridge

      We have two adopted children from South Korea. I'm sorry that our decision makes you sad. Unlike you, some of us believe that all children have value and need good homes regardless of what country they happen to be born in.

      December 8, 2011 at 3:18 pm | Report abuse |
      • AmericanSam

        Yes. A child is a child. Children are not to be divided up between American children and foreign children. They are all children, they should all be loved, and adopting any child from anywhere is a wonderful and selfless thing to do.

        December 10, 2011 at 12:17 pm | Report abuse |
      • Shonda Cedeno

        GOOD FOR YOU GEOFF.. It does not matter where anyone adopts a child and the thing is that the people bashing this man more than likely have not adopted any children so who are they to judge? GOOD FOR YOU:-)

        December 15, 2011 at 4:23 am | Report abuse |
    • Mel

      You're an idiot, plain and simple. Your comment makes no sense whatsoever. Who cares where he adopted?? ...mind blowing stupidity really.

      December 10, 2011 at 3:16 pm | Report abuse |
    • MJ

      I think that it is sad that you have a definition of "home" that ends atan artificial, human-made border. Colombia is part of my "home". Earth is my home, humanity is my family. The rest is politics.

      December 16, 2011 at 1:53 pm | Report abuse |
      • kayjulia

        I really liked what you said very thoughtful may I use it?

        December 20, 2011 at 4:56 pm | Report abuse |
  13. Liz

    This is so sad, now these children have been uprooted and once again, now family. If that doesn't build bitterness, insecurity, anger. As long as they are in a loving, caring home, that is all that matters. We need new judges, once who are more educated in reality.

    December 4, 2011 at 11:51 am | Report abuse |
  14. Stephanie

    Okay, if he were a pedophile or an ax murderer I would agree with the judge's statement, but he's gay, so what?!? They are going to take those boys and put them back into a country where they are going to suffer at the hands of a corrupt system with no one to protect them? Sounds like an excellent plan.

    December 4, 2011 at 10:28 am | Report abuse |
  15. Me

    He committed fraud as you have to disclose everything about yourself when you are adopting. If he chose to keep this secret, who knows what else he is hiding. When you lie you lose. Tough break for the kids but they will hopefully find better parent's fort them, if not they are better off without him anyway.

    December 3, 2011 at 2:55 pm | Report abuse |
  16. Absynthe

    The only father these two boys had? So, the system rips them from a loving family?

    I don't know when morons will ever comprehend that "Gay" isn't something that isn't something that rubs off, dammit!

    Those boys don't care about what their parents do in bed – they only care about being loved, cared for, and doing family stuff with their dad. Like watching cartoons, joking around, and going out. This is horrible.

    December 3, 2011 at 2:53 am | Report abuse |